{"id":76646,"date":"2022-02-21T12:20:04","date_gmt":"2022-02-21T17:20:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/emilyfieldrd.com\/?p=76646"},"modified":"2022-03-01T12:25:18","modified_gmt":"2022-03-01T17:25:18","slug":"high-achiever-vs-impossibly-high-standards","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/emilyfieldrd.com\/blog\/high-achiever-vs-impossibly-high-standards\/","title":{"rendered":"high achiever vs impossibly high standards"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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Perfectionism is a socially acceptable self defeating belief. You may get lots of positive reinforcement for this mindset that leaves you open to pain, frustration, and negative emotions. \u2063
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I am thrilled when you put your trust in me enough to work on the \u201cstuff between your ears\u201d but sometimes, you might not be ready for change even though you may desperately want to. \u2063
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I can lead a horse to water but I can\u2019t make them drink – and look, that\u2019s a real expensive trip to the watering hole if you\u2019re investing in coaching and not actually able to work on your mindset at the same time \ud83e\udd10 \u2063<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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Here\u2019s how perfectionism shows up with fat loss or weight loss:\u2063
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>> you\u2019re driven by a fear of gaining weight or losing your results\u2063
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>> you\u2019re constantly thinking about your body, obsess over your flaws\u2063
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>> you look for validation of success and failure in the scale weight number \u2063
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>> you obsess over the most optimal way to do everything, resulting in overwhelm and losing the forest through the trees\u2063
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>> you feel guilty when you don\u2019t prioritize productivity, ultimately compromising on rest and recovery \u2063
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I\u2019m curious if you see yourself here! if you have a nagging voice in the back of your head, what helps you keep it quiet?\u2063<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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Perfectionism is a socially acceptable self-defeating belief. You may get positive reinforcement for this mindset that leaves you open to pain and frustration.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":76569,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"default","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[173],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-76646","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-mindset"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/emilyfieldrd.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/76646"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/emilyfieldrd.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/emilyfieldrd.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/emilyfieldrd.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/emilyfieldrd.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=76646"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/emilyfieldrd.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/76646\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":76650,"href":"https:\/\/emilyfieldrd.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/76646\/revisions\/76650"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/emilyfieldrd.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/76569"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/emilyfieldrd.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=76646"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/emilyfieldrd.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=76646"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/emilyfieldrd.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=76646"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}